How can I last longer in bed during a threesome?
I’m 19, and my girlfriend is 18. We had been talking about this for quite a while, couple months actually (she’s bisexual). She herself said she was kind of interested in having a threesome with either another guy or girl, she just wanted to experience it. So about 2 weeks ago, she said we might as well get it over with. She told me to find another guy or girl (I was definitely thinking girl of course) but I just felt kind of awkward asking some of my female friends if they would be interested lol Finally, she just told me to forget about it and that she would get someone.
This past weekend she told me she had someone and that we could do it when we all had free time. She wouldn’t tell me who it was though. Well, yesterday we did our thing and I finally got to see who the other person would be: her [somewhat hotter] older sister (21). I know, to some of you (probably females) it may seem very weird, but I think it was an amazing experience. And I guess it wasn’t as much of a shock considering her sister was the one who introduced her to sex some years back.
Anyways, it was our first threesome experience for all of us and we all enjoyed it. We’re thinking of trying it again, which I’m glad of buuuut.. the bad news: I was too excited that I didn’t last at all. I went maybe 15-20 minutes, including foreplay (I know.. really, really sad) and then they had to finish each other off.
My question, what can I do to kind of.. be less excited, I guess. I want to be able to last longer the next time.
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American women view 7 to 13 minutes of penetration "ideal" for sex. With two women, you really need to get twice as much out of the situation. So, basically you need to be able to penetrate for 15-25 minutes.
The obvious first step in extending the total session length is foreplay. Foreplay should really be the focus of any sexual encounter, especially in a threesome. There are some women that are really into penetration, but I don’t think I’ve ever heard a woman complain "when my boyfriend and I have sex there is just too much foreplay!". Foreplay primes the pumps and makes achieving orgasm much easier.
Condoms can be useful for slowing down a man’s excitement, and are a good idea for group sex situations anyways.
Some guys can go multiple times a night, but others are definitely "one and done". If you can go multiple times without too much refractory period there is no shame in going once, taking a break and focusing on foreplay, and going again. Some of my best nights were marathon sessions with several such breaks.
In closing, assuming because the women in question are sisters there was little bisexual activity between them; this really cramps a lot of options for making sure everyone is satisfied. Most successful threesomes involve some girl-girl action while the guy takes a breather. Without that option threesomes become much trickier, and it’s much more difficult for both women to feel fully satisfied.
i have a feeling these two girls were fat so you lose.
think of a dude
f*ck 20 minutes?, i can hardly last 2
just to clarify some things that you should tell your gf: a threesome is 1 guy 2 girls 2 guys and 1 girl is a gang bang. just to clarify. but maybe its b.c it was your first time doing a threesom you were overly excited. maybe next time you will go longer b.c you had experience.
First of all I got say that’s having a threesome with your girlfriend and her sister is fucking disgusting…..For her
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Anyways I’am surprised that you lasted that long. Having sex with two beautiful women. My suggestion is that you pleasure them with hands and mouth, and don’t let ANYTHING touch your penis. Do this for about 20 minutes or until they both or one of them cums. Then you can use your penis. If it works out you’ll at least have beaten you old record. My other suggestion is too watch a lot of porn and test yourself to see how long you can last. Remember practice makes perfect.
INCEST! *Cough, cough*
Honestly, what’s this girl thinking?
Why in the world out of every other girl, pick her sister to join a threesome with HER boyfriend.
No offense dude, but that’s just messed up.
I really don’t understand the fantasies of some guys. *Shudders*
My feeling it is the newness of the experience that kept you from lasting that long and as you do it more it should subside.