My girlfriend tightens up when we try to have vaginal intercourse. She is a virgin, and we can’t get past this?
My girl never had sex before we started dating. We have been together for a long time, and please each other in other ways, but anytime we try to have vaginal intercourse it feels like she tightens up. I’ve never had sex with a virgin before. My penis doesn’t go all the way in but it feels good to me. She looks like she is uncomfortable and puts the kibosh on it all pretty quickly. I mean I thought it would be kind of painful for her but then it would expand to accept my member? Any thoughts? We have tried this numerous times and I don’t know what to do.
I’m about 6.5 inches. We’re both in our 30’s.
OK–i forgot to ask about this…how do I know when her hymen is broken? She is in her 30′s so it’s possible she already broke it through riding her bike or using a dildo (though her dildo is not that big). Is it hard to break, or pretty easy? Thanks.
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You need to make sure that she’s properly lubricated and ready to go. If she naturally cannot get very wet, use lube. Make sure she’s relaxed, because that could definitely present a problem if she’s not.
Tell her to shut up and take it :] No, I’m just kidding. But tell her once she does it a few times it will stop hurting. The only way to make it hurt less is to just do it. You could maybe try some lube so it slips in a little easy… also fingering may loosen her a little.
what you are talking about is perfectly normal, u cant go through all the way @ once, it has to be on stages first just brake the hymen, then wait for a couple of days and try to push a little more , another couple of days and a little more ………………… and on.
but most important thing is that u make sure that she is very moist, coz usually females are not that moist @ the beginning of there sexual life, so allot of foreplay is needed
hope i helped take care and have fun