Why does my husband have sensation problems in his penis?
My husband is 26 years old. We waited till we got married to have intercourse. Before we were married he had no problem maintaining an erection, but now that we are having intercourse he loses his erection after only a few minutes. He says it is because he can't feel anything inside of me. He is not small, but says he feels small inside of me. This only happens about half the time we have sex, so we don't know if it is a neurological issue or what. He hates the doctor, does anyone have any ideas of what it might be, or any home remedies to try?
We do not use condoms, and he is not on any medications. Neither of us have any kids yet either, if that helps.
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It might be possible that you are getting too wet. Too much lubrication will practically erase any sensation on the part of your husband. If this happens frequently, then the anticipation of a wonderful sensation that is felt by sexual intercourse is lost and will not stimulate erection anymore.
Part of the problem can also be solved by trying out different positions where more sensation on the part of your husband can be felt.
use a thinner condom
if this keeps happening i would make him see a dr. there could be something going on inside of him. i wouldnt think as his age it would be normal if he didnt use to be this way.. also it could be a mind over matter thing.. putting to much thought into what hes doing and not losing up and let things happen… good luck
are you using condoms? if you are this could be cutting down on the sensations he feels when he is inside of you.
also have you had any kids?
if so you could be a bit bigger than someone who hasn't had any kids and this could be part of it.
try squeezing your kegal muscles when he is inside of you to give him some sensations.
he could have a medical problem, it could be pycological, and has he started takeing any new mediceines that this could be a side effect of?
also does he have diebetes or anything like that? nerve damage?
try viagra if its a case of ED!
BEST THING TO DO WOULD BE FOR HIM TO TALK TO THE DR AND GET CHECKED OUT!!!!!!!
Sometimes even though you hate drs you gotta suck it up and go to them to make sure of what is wrong with you.
Sounds to me like his penis has had the foreskin removed. The foreskin has most of the nerve-endings in the penis, and when a male gets circumcised, it can often lead to a lack of feeling during intercourse, which can lead to premature ejaculation and impotence, as well as a myriad of other undesirable effects. There are methods for regrowing the foreskin, but he'll never have as much sensation as he would have if he'd never had this natural organ mutilated.
Edit: Notice the word "can" in my explainanation, Icy gazpacho. The fact that circumcision CAN cause these dysfunctions is well known. The fact that most of the nerve-endings in the penis are in the foreskin is medical fact. You should count yourself lucky that you don't have these problems, although I'm certain that you'd feel more if you were intact… just ask anyone who's been cut later in life. You might not kill someone everytime you drive drunk, but that doesn't mean that drunk driving deaths don't occur.
Well, you can tell him you are doing Kegels to strengthen your muscles there.. but it is more likely to be libido related. Low levels of testosterone can cause this, as can high levels of stress. My thoughts are that you do kegels (just to humour him as it shouldn't make that much differnece if you haven't had children yet) and he should get some blood tests.
Warming gel is fun as are toys… btw.
BTW.. I don't condone Circumscision but it hasn't got anything to do with whether or not he is circumscised, othewise I wuold have the same complaint as he has.
penis does not have the sensation as you feel in your fingers, it has only deep sensation, give him tab viagra and see the difference.