Embarrassed About My Large Penis
A lot of guys think they want a huge penis. They pop pills or use a pump or even get the tension extenders (like the Jes Extender or the Size Genetics pack) and go through all kinds of things to make their perfectly fine average penises bigger. But having a large penis can cause issues too, and few very well endowed men will address those in a realistic fashion. I hope then to address some of the reasons why a large penis might be an embarrassment to those who are supposedly blessed with a huge cock.
One of the biggest issues with a “too large” cock that creates embarrassment is the inability to get and sustain a truly hard erection. This can be addressed with cock rings and vacuum pumps, although the pumps are fairly risky. A large penis might be lovely to look at, but not so much to actually have attached to you when you have to keep cock rings and lube handy for intimate situations.
Oh yes, Lube is pretty damn important if you have a large cock. Try explaining that to a girl or guy on a date and not be embarrassed. “Oh, that. It’s nothing…. just, Mr. Wally here gets pretty big, – um larger then that–”. Um, yea… makes for an interesting ice breaker, if you can keep the blush off your cheeks.
Another embarrassment with a large penis is condom breakage. Fact is, it is difficult to locate a condom large enough to fit comfortably on any cock bigger then – oh, eight or nine inches. If you have a monster size one eyed bandit in your pants you will likely have to order special condoms from some online shop or another. Not only will a standard condom be too small, but chances are you will break it.
While there are little practical things that can be done to make it less of an issue, the fact is that a small penis can always grow, at least a little. A large one – well you are pretty much stuck with it. If you happen to have a small partner of either gender it can present a problem, particularly if you cause them pain when you don’t intend to. Lube helps, sure enough. Longer foreplay can help to. It’s not a overwhelming situation that cannot be dealt with, if you know how to handle it. Learning how however can be hugely embarrassing.
While a large penis can be an ego builder, and often times serves to enhance body image, once you get down to the practical matters of intercourse and penetration, you might find you are having to try new positions in addition to getting used to doing way more foreplay. Both of these things may prove to be a little awkward until the techniques are perfected. Take heart though if you are embarrassed by your large cock. While there are practical difficulties with it, there are also many fine applications to having one that will reveal themselves as you master your situation.
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