Does anyone know of any herbs to help a man last longer in bed?

Please help I really would like to have my husband last a while longer!!
I guess I wasn’t specific enough. My husband will be 33 next month and he doesn’t have a problem with getting it hard ;) The problem he has is that he cums in like 2 minutes. If he tries really hard he might last five minutes but hat is with a lot of stopping and saying don’t move. Thanks for all your help.

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  1. nor358716

    Survival of the Fastest

    What if premature ejaculation isn’t a curse after all, but simply "survival of the fastest"? According to Mark Jeffrey Noble, M.D., a consultant to the Cleveland Clinic Glickman Urological Institute, "One might find some logical sense, from an evolutionary point of view, to the idea that males who can ejaculate rapidly would be more likely to succeed in fertilizing a female than those males who require prolonged stimulation to reach climax."

    So in that sense, maybe PE isn’t a sexual dysfunction at all — it’s a completely normal way of functioning, based on male physiology. That’s why we should stop calling it "premature" ejaculation and come up with a new, more accurate term: "immature ejaculation." Because, frankly, that’s what it is: an immature way of doing things that largely stems from the way we’re taught, or rather, not taught, to masturbate in childhood.

    Most young men, fearing discovery, masturbate furtively and quickly, unwittingly exploiting, and simultaneously hard-coding, their natural propensity to rapidly achieve gratification. Weight lifters talk about "muscle memory." I believe that premature ejaculators experience "penis memory." No wonder the pioneering sex researcher Alfred Kinsey observed in his book Sexual Behavior in the Human Male that the average man can maintain penetrative thrusting for only about 2 minutes. (However, Cosmo readers said the average guy lasts 10 to 15 minutes.) We’ve trained ourselves to ejaculate quickly, and we need to relearn the process of sexual response in order to last longer.
    The Sensitive Man

    At first, like any overexcited teenager, I dealt with PE in the usual ways: masturbating before going out on dates (which helps, but becomes less effective as you get older and require more downtime between erections); downing beers; and donning double, even triple, condoms. I even tried to delay orgasm in the heat of the moment by distracting myself with baseball statistics or images of dead people — and let me tell you, thinking about corpses during sex: definite mood killer.

    Later, I graduated to herbal remedies, topical ointments, and miracle creams advertised in the backs of porn magazines. On one occasion, my little experiments led to an acid burn of my penis in the men’s room of a Japanese restaurant.

    In yet another doomed effort, I put the Errol Flynn method to the test: a dab of cocaine on the tip of the penis. The matinee idol once explained that it could be helpful "if you’re quick on the trigger." But it didn’t work for me, and I doubt it really worked for Flynn. He claimed to have slept with more than 13,000 women in his lifetime. Now, how the hell are you going to do that without being a premature ejaculator?
    Am I Coming or Going?

    The day Tara left for Hong Kong — giving me 3 weeks to shape up or clear out — I spiraled to an all-time low. In a desperate attempt to keep that ring on her finger, I tried every type of radical therapy. There was biofeedback treatment, in which an electrode was inserted where I least wanted it, and I was encouraged to engage in an activity once thought to cause blindness in teenagers; self-hypnosis tapes that lulled me into such a deep trance with its sounds of water being stopped and started that I woke up soaked in my own urine; and a session with a German "masturbation specialist" who sternly observed and critiqued my methods of self-pleasure, all the while keeping time with a metronome and commanding me to "stop, start, squeeze; stop, start, squeeze!"

    By the time Tara returned, I was a complete mess. I didn’t know if I was coming or going. Or, for that matter, if I’d be coming and then going after having sex with her.

    And as she emerged from the shower and came to bed, naked and glistening, I was so nervous, I didn’t just prematurely ejaculate, I spontaneously ejaculated.

    True to her word, she left me. Don’t feel bad. I don’t. (Anymore.) And don’t worry, either. According to the MensHealth.com and Cosmopolitan survey, less than 10 percent of women say they’ve dumped a guy because he was quick on the draw.

    Shortly after we broke up, I began working with a really terrific sex therapist. I overcame PE within a few months, using six techniques. (See the Related article: "6 Steps to Beat PE".) I was so transformed, and inspired, that I decided to change careers and go down that path myself.

    Today, I continue to learn about PE, which is exactly what the late sex therapist Helen Singer Kaplan, M.D., Ph.D., advised in what is still considered the definitive guide to conquering PE, titled How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation. My struggles led me not only to my passion in life — writing about sex and helping others through sex therapy — but to the love of my life, as well: my wife, Lisa. My short story finally found a happy ending.

  2. ginseng, goatweed pills,

  3. Lizzie Ann

    i hope my boyfriend is reading the answers to this question

  4. andrew f

    yeah me lol just keep him hard and excited and he will be fine, other than that have u tried viagra?

  5. ReadyForChange

    yohimbe is supposed to work wonders. Many alternative religion stores, health food stores, and such carry it. Many people are allergic, so be careful.

  6. A78MALIBU

    a penis ring for the base of his penis.its tight and doesnt let the blood flow out of the penis. there only a few bucks.you slip it on after you get hard

  7. NickName

    Could be he is just bored. Try being a little kinkier, or do something to keep him entertained while in the act. Otherwise he might skip to the end. If it really is premature whatever tell him to try again. Depending on how old he is he should be able to go again anywhere from 5 – 30 mins later. The second time most men last much longer though may not be as hard. (again depending on age). Also tell him if he fells the big O coming to switch positions. There is always redirecting thought to something else. (doesn’t really work)

    Aside from all that back to the original question. Herbs that help men. Here are some all are not necessarily related to stamina but all will affect it indirectly.

    Ginseng Stamina
    Oysters improves circulation
    Fish Oil or Omega 3 improves circulation
    Energy Drinks mood enhancer

    Beer helps younger men but can make older men go limpy.

    There you go. Hope you find something that works.

    Just thought of one more. Put oragel or Anbesol on his side of the condom toward the top. Make sure none leaks out because it could make things boring for you.

  8. HELP ME OUT FOR REAL

    Tell him to if he masterbates to take himself right to the edge then to stop, let the feeling subside then do it again. after 3 finally finish. do that when ever he masterbates and he’ll build up endurance. also do kagels.

  9. yesss tongkat ali….herbs found in malaysia.ipoh sarawak hv. SG hv in pills form.Vykim.

  10. Well you might want to say ‘let’s go for more than once’ or something like that.

    For herbs try Stinging Nettle Root and perhaps yohimbe. The stinging nettle root should be taken every day and will help after a week or so. The yohimbe is a before the event thing.

    Nettle Root is pretty safe, and can be taken for a long time.

    I’d try that first along with acting sexxy and encouragement. The yohimbe is something to need to be more careful with, i.e. don’t mix with caffeine.

    Have fun!

  11. the59daychallenge

    Vimax and NaturoMax are both good for these problems- my friends and I are actually doing an experiment trying out a couple of these different herb pills to see which one works best.

  12. vincepac601

    there are a number of things you can do and over the counter pills you can try

  13. Serephima

    There are many herbs to help improve, enhance, and sustain your sex life. Simple herbs and seeds are – Pumpkin seeds, Damiana herb (in capsules or as tea – tea should be drank 3 times a day) Nettle herb is good for many things (health food store), including sexual healing as well, Horny Goats Weed, Tribule Terrestre, Muira Puama, Saw Palmetto, Siberian Ginseng … (make sure your heart and blood pressure are good). Some herbs can increase blood preassure, but Garlic will keep the blood pressure down, plus it is good for your sex life.

    Or go to your Health Food Store and buy something called Vigro Force.
    It has all the right amounts of what you need, and you will need to take this regularly, and make sure you are physically healthy (check with your doctor for any health concerns you might have).
    Make sure your body gets the proper rest at night, and eat healthy foods thoughout the day.

    I strongly advise against Viagra and Cialis because those will cause you greater stress and more problems later on.
    Stay as close to Nature as possible in all things.

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