do Vagina’s tighten over time? and do you think shes a virgin? (PLEASE READ!! will give Best Answer!)?
my gf and i were in the car making out and i started fingering her (the girl ive fingered) and well anyway i could only fit one finger in her. i tried for two but couldnt do it. i fingered her for about 10 minutes till she orgasmed.
she told me she was drugged and raped by her ex 1 year ago and had sex with one other guy 1 year prior to that (supposedly he dumped her the next day) so she claims shes NOT a virgin. we are both 17 yrs old. my gf hasnt lied to me yet but her stories (too long to list here) didnt really seem to add up..
at first i believed her b.c. shes insecure about guys not liking her/just leaving her. but then i started thinking about all this:
what makes me think she might NOT be a virgin:
-i could only fit one finger
-she told me thats the first time shes ever orgasmed (even though she masterbates, she claims ‘im just not very good at it’)
-another time she told me she bleeds everytime she has sex (she had it once consciouss once unconciouss and she doesnt masterbate and i know she deff hasnt done it with anymore than those possible two)..so how would she know?
-it was the first time anyone ever fingered her and ate out of her.
with the evidence above can you answer the following to the best of your abilities please:
-do Vagina’s tighten over time?
-do you think shes a virgin?
-if she is lying about her past..why would she do that ?
all in all i think she prob isnt a virgin but idk..tell me what YOU honestly think!!
i am a virgin and she knows it!
Related posts:
- How to tighten vagina! – best answer rewarded?
- Is it true if you don’t have sex for a long time your vagina will tighten up?
- Virgin Cream To tighten the Vagina to enhance the sexual experience?
- If you don’t have sex for a really long time does your vagina tighten up again?
- My vagina is loose How can I tighten it up?








As someone already pointed out, it’s a muscular structure. Just as you can contract and relax a muscle in your arm or just about anywhere else, her vagina is going to be tighter or more relaxed depending on her mood. By masturbating she could mean she only rubs her clit and doesn’t finger herself. And having sex twice doesn’t magically make for a loose hole. A girl I was with recently regularly uses 3 fingers inside herself but I found it difficult to use more than one. (But she liked it lol) So you just need to be patient with her and treat her as though she’s only had sex twice, each occasion a year apart, not like a porn star you could shove a truck inside.
a vagina is a muscle. so it doesn’t necessilary tighten over time.
some girls who have had sex, still are "tight"
I wish vaginas tightened over time! Alas they do not:)
Couldnt say about her virginity or her claims..
i honestly think that she is a virgin, vaginas do no tighten over time, and i think that if ever she lied about her past, maybe she said that because she might just wants to have sex with someone, hey that’s just what i think…:)
Does it really matter, if she is or isn’t? I don’t think a girl would make up something like that.
It depends. What you should be asking is if your not a virgin what makes it such a big deal to you that she is. you’re young so you’ll learn about communication and how important it is. If you don’t trust her and don’t think you ever will, drive on soldier. But handle it with care, being raped is nothing to lie about. People lie for many reasons, none of them make it justifiable in the end.
Yes vaginas to close if not used!
Are you a virgin?
Why should she do that?
Both being young you have to experiment to each others needs
to be satisfied and to satrisfy.
Well the one finger thing, probably means shes been with some little guys. No vagina’s don’t tighten without surgery, but it is kind of like a guys how it changes sizes all throughout the day. why would she lie to you about the being raped thing, the only thing that comes to mind is to make you respect her. i know sounds crazy, but if you think she was raped are you going to try and get in her pants as fast or are you going be gentle about it and respect her decision?? as life goes on virgins get fewer and fewer so if that’s what you want get a new g/f. if it doesn’t matter don’t let sex ruin the relationship b/c she lied about her sex life….good luck.
YES vaginas do become tight again, once they have been loosened, over time.
Just look at child birth. And YES, they DO go back to normal, but it takes time.